Should we encourage learning by mistakes? Case in point is sex education in secondary schools.
We do not teach our children to drive by allowing them to crash our cars. We only focus on making sure that they drive responsibly and correctly.
But when it is about human interaction and relationship, we are dealing at two levels: the social and actions. Building human relationship (marriage in particular) is not only about action (making love), it is more about understanding and enjoying the company of another human being.
Sex education seems to focus on "action" and taking precaution by talking about "protected sex". IS that encouraging "learning by mistakes"? Is that safe?